I’m emerging from all banquet all the time– back into the land of the living!

Now I have to catch up on what’s been missed.  People have gotten engaged; things have happened in the news; Halloween evites have gone unanswered; apparently on Grey’s Anatomy there was a fire, and there are people running around in yellow scrubs. . . what’s that all about?

The event went well, though I’d rather not think about the details of it any more for about five hundred years.  I hope to be sleeping normally without dreams of auction items any day now.

I’ll say though, that as miserable as I felt at points in handling all this planning, it’s a privilege to work for a place like Little Lights.  My stress and frustration are nothing compared to some of the things that the LL kids deal with daily, and at such a young age.  A racing mind over a banquet is OK if it’ll help our kids have less stress and more smiles in their days.

Anne

So, this is the closest I got to my Anne of Green Gables fantasies on our cruise to Canada (other pictures here).  We were in Nova Scotia, not quite to Prince Edward Island.  So close, yet so far!

The past two months have been transitional for me, as I started a new job at Little Lights Urban Ministries.  It’s a great organization that works with kids in public housing in DC.   The big thing that has been consuming my time is a fundraising banquet and silent auction coming up later in October.  (You should attend!)  Hopefully I will not auction off my soul before it’s all over, and through all the stinking details we’ll remember that “it’s for the kids!” –as a coworker in one of my old internships used to say.  He was making fun of liberals though.

So that explains the bloggy hiatus, and twitter too.  (Ha!)

That’s not all that’s been going on though– I’ve started my Rosetta Stone Spanish lessons!  This is a huge victory.  I can now say, “El perro esta comiendo” (the dog is eating) with complete confidence if I happen upon two people at a campsite while I’m on a hike, and they ask me what the dog is doing.  (This is a real Rosetta Stone example!)

Also, we started watching Mad Men.  Also, we got rid of cable!  It’s almost as big as the time Eliza Joy got her first pair of designer jeans.  Or when I finally got wise and abandoned my purple huffy bike.  It’s probably still sitting, rusty, on a bike rack by New Cabell Hall.

So, my summer reading was completed with Julie & Julia by Julie Powell and My Life in France by Julia Child, with Alex Prud’homme. Mom sent them to me after we both saw the movie (albeit 14 hours away from each other– sad face!).   ML and MJ (Mom and I) agree that Julia Child and her story are a lot more likeable than Julie Powell’s.  In Mom’s words, “This girl’s grandmother should’ve taught her mother better!”  However, without Julie Powell, her blog, and the subsequent movie, we probably wouldn’t have picked up Julia Child’s memoirs.  Julia strikes me as such a positive person, but not in the annoying way you might expect.  The book is peppered with her exclamations, like “Wow!” and “It was a triumph!”  Of course, Meryl Streep is fantastic, per usual, as Julia in the movie.

Both Julie P. and Julia C. become more aware of themselves through their experiences, as they take on a project or a goal that each one assigned to herself.  That’s something to be admired.  It’s inspired my friend Megan to put her money where her mouth is, so to speak, as a self-proclaimed Jane Austen fanatic who actually needs to read all the books.  (I haven’t done that either, Megs!)

I don’t have a particular project to take on as a result of immersing myself in Julia Child-world, except to be a better cook.  And that seems especially daunting after reading about all the French dishes Julia mastered.   Plus it makes me think of all the projects I’ve left undone. . .  However, I love that at 40-something years old, Julia Child was exploring and taking on new things, and still trying to discover what she loved and was meant to do.  She also emphasizes that it just takes a lot of work, and for her, lots of time and experimenting, driven by her desire to understand the ins and outs of French cooking.   I’m certainly guilty of desiring instant gratification and success, so it’s an important lesson for me.  Also, it may point to a key difference between Julie Powell– does success mean getting a book deal from your blog?– and Julia Child, whose success was hard-fought and will likely endure far longer.

Those are my thoughts.  I can’t believe it’s October!  Along with Eliz and Bernie, we’re brainstorming on how to create the best Mad Men costumes. . . heavy drinking and smoking should be involved.  Happy fall!

Here’s Allison’s post with stories from her trip to Kenya.  There’s another in Mocha Club’s Guest Bloggers section.  Go Al!

  AB in Africa

Clueless epiphany

Wait a minute. . .

“I love Josh! I’m majorly, totally, butt crazy in love with Josh!”

(And who wouldn’t love Paul Rudd?)

My dear friend Ansley, a self-professed non-movie lover, uses this scene to describe the epiphany she had regarding her now-fiancé Will. 

Will & Ansley's engagement

Congrats Will and Ansley!  May your relationship be as successful as Josh and Cher’s surely was. 

Look at Ansley– she’s such an excited little muffin! 

Ansley in love

I’m so glad that Cher Horowitz/Alicia Silverstone set the stage for it to happen.

Well, as everyone knows, earlier this week Jillian chose Ed in what was, if not the most dramatic, at least the most emotional Bachelor/Bachelorette season finale  EVER!  Ever?  Ever.

Although my eyes were glued to the TV (along with yours, probably, and millions of others’ worldwide!), this is how Israel reacted to the excitement, the drama, the emotion, above all– the LOVE:

Yes, it's a blackberry in his right hand, remote control in his left.

Yes, he's asleep, with a blackberry in his right hand, remote control in his left.

What do you expect?  He’s a classy guy.  He loves history, he appreciates more of a classic love story, not reality TV.  He’s just bored and depressed by such a mockery of romance.  He’s probably more stirred by scenes like these:

That’s convenient, because next week, we’re going on vacation to L.M. Montgomery’s native land– Canada!

(Don’t tell him– Jillian and Anne are both Canadian, so it’s all really the same!)

I miss the days of summer reading requirements.  Except when the books were no good.

Three books that I’ve enjoyed so far this summer are Anne Perry’s No Graves As Yet (first in her World War I series– have I mentioned I love historical fiction?), Brother Lawrence’s Practicing the Presence of God, and Love Walked In by Marisa de los Santos. 

The latter is a charming story about Cornelia, a somewhat directionless woman who processes her life through the lens of books and movies.  Obviously, this is a great character.  Although she does get involved with a Cary Grant look-alike, Cornelia  finds some purpose when she meets her match in a little girl  (No, not in a man!  Girl power!) who similarly identifies with characters in stories– mostly orphans like Sara Crewe in A Little Princess, Anne Shirley, and the rest.  I very much enjoyed this sweet, quick read.  Great for summer.

As for movies, there have been many, some pretty good, but none that I absolutely love and want to marry.  Here are my random thoughts:

  • Midnight Cowboy — Gritty has become a favorite movie-review word in our house (apartment). This NYC movie is gritty.  Sara and Manuel Ortega watched it on their first date.  Awww!  Sigh.
  • The Apartment – Jack Lemmon is a great actor.
  • Rachel Getting Married — I agree with AK’s assessment that Anne Hathaway is good in this (to my surprise).
  • Last Chance Harvey – Meh.
  • Splendor in the Grass — Hugely depressing. I’d rather watch Natalie Wood in Westside Story and Warren Beatty in. . .  something else.  I don’t think I’ve ever seen another of his movies.  We’ll add Bonnie and Clyde to the queue, and hopefully Warren can be redeemed.
  • Vicky Cristina Barcelona — Love Penelope Cruz. Really interesting discussion movie. I had to discuss it with myself because Izzy went to the other room.

And for the future:  UP! has been recommended by many folks.  Sounds like a great summer flick!  I love the concept of mixing of old and young, both in the story and the viewing audience.  I’d also really like to see Julie & Julia when it comes out.  Don’t fail me, Nora Ephron!  I’m counting on you to complete my summer! 

(Note: I will see this even though my husband has a secret crush on Amy Adams.)

Any thoughts to add?  Questions, comments, personal experiences?  Queries, queries?  (One of my H.S. teachers used to say that: “Queries? Queries?”  And then we would laugh immaturely.)

On this lovely Monday, I’m pleased to report that the bear has returned safely from his good friend Ian’s bachelor party in Atlantic City.

I bring it up because, after going on about how much I loved The Hangover, several people asked if I was worried about Izzy on the trip, whether they lost the groom, etc. (As if it would be poetic justice or something, just because I liked the movie!  I would not have laughed so hard in real life.)

The Hangover

Caitlin, Ian’s bride-to-be, can relax now that the boys are home– hopefully none with a wicked sunburn.  Wise planning not to have these events the day prior to the wedding.

And although they weren’t arrested and may or may not have encountered Mike Tyson and his tiger, I’m pretty sure these gentlemen attracted plenty of attention to themselves:

Sponsored by Vineyard Vines?

Sponsored by Vineyard Vines?

Man can those Hamilton boys color-coordinate!  Most of them are neither Southerners nor Republicans!  So check your preconceived notions at the door.

And now for something completely different.  Not really. 

The readers have demanded more from my mom (or Lynnesky, as Dad prefers), so here’s another of her emails with her thoughts on The Hangover, and my morals.  She raised me, by the way.

Yesterday Kyle had a client in town (xxx [again, name withheld to protect this innocent soul]) playing in a golf tournament. After the golf was done, we were supposed to take him to dinner and entertain him for the evening. He was dressed very casually, didn’t want to go to a chain restaurant and had barbecue for lunch at the tournament, so we went to Buckley’s for a steak or whatever.

 
After dinner he wasn’t ready to call it a night, but he didn’t want to go downtown or go bowling or go to the after tournament party. He thought a grownup movie might be good because he and Liza have two small children, and their latest movie was ‘Up’ – twice. So we said that 3 of our kids had really liked ‘The Hangover’. He said that his younger brother really recommended it, also. So we went to the movie….

 
Oh. My. Goodness.

 
I am sorry to have to say that 3 of my children are perhaps morally bankrupt and intellectually spent. I could have gone the rest of my life without seeing a naked gay Chinese character jump on somebody’s face….


Having said that, there were several times when I laughed so hard that I almost choked on my popcorn.


Of course, I can never admit to most of my friends that I saw ‘The Hangover’, and I’m just thankful that we didn’t see anyone we know.

Hey, Mom?  I’ve outed you.  Don’t show this blog to your friends.

This is just a friendly family alert.

If either the [neighbor down the street-- name withheld to protect the innocent] or the Rote house is involved in an explosion, you can let the nice agents from the BATF know that there was no terrorism – foreign or domestic – involved.

It’s just that Kyle, Mary Lynne, Richard and Beth have turned into Bill Murray in Caddyshack. It’s either us or the gophers now. We have used sprays, granules, pellets (toxic and non-toxic), traps (humane only), Tabasco sauce. We have encouraged our pets to go after small rodents. Beth has also trapped 70 chipmunks. I am hopelessly behind her with only 9. She has also hired ‘professionals.’ I think explosives are the only thing left. At least if we accidentally blow up our houses, we won’t have to pay our outrageous city taxes.

Hey, Lama, hey, how about a little something, you know, for the effort, you know?

Hey, Lama, hey, how about a little something, you know, for the effort?

pinball

He’s a pinball wizard.

(I didn’t know this, and I don’t know the guy on the right.  It feels like I learn something new about Dad every day.  Growing up, we would regularly get upset with Mom and Dad because of the information they withheld from us.  As in, We got engaged on our first date.)

short shorts

He has an extensive collection of short shorts!  In great colors too.  Also, blazers. 

From him, I inherited a sweet tooth and a love of fractured fairy tales.

He taught me sports, math, and that I deserve to be loved.dancing with dad

He hired the extra musicians for my wedding day!  (Wow.)

What a guy– carrot jr., klye, KRjr, Captain Papa.

“Oh, you have a plan!  That’s different!”

“No.”

charles-grodin